Peaceful Togetherness means that horses are not trained for a specific goal or purpose. It’s all about the relationship, to be with each other at eye level and do fun things together we both enjoy equally. It’s about helping the horse to find its strength and happiness. For that we learn ‘horse language’, to understand our horse and to become clearer in our communication. That allows us to assess our horse’s reactions early on, when we e.g. go out for a walk. Strategies our horse uses, such as pushing, pulling, or refusing to leave grass, are answered peacefully with our intention, body language and rarely through touch. When the horse does something we like, we give a positive feedback, but such behaviours are not trained through repetitive exercises, but answered when they occur.

For a truly peaceful relationship with our horse, we often have to learn to be peaceful with ourselves first, to stop criticizing or judging ourselves. To learn about our own emotions and relationship patterns and how this affects us and others. And how we can change things we don’t want in our life anymore or accept what can’t be changed. To learn to set boundaries. To find our strength. To trust ourselves enough to be authentic. And to listen to our heart and intuition. With that we can heal. And grow. Together with our horse.

This is not your way, if you want your horse to function and if you’re not interested in looking at your part of the relationship. And that’s ok too! But if you’re curious and open to this wonderful and unique path, I’d like to invite you to download my free e-Book and video ‘Easy Grazing’ below, in which I’d like to give you a bit insight into this very different and gentle world. You can also listen to my podcast or read carefully selected articles in my blog below. To learn more about your and your horse’s possible journey click here.